Healing After Pregnancy Loss in Long Beach, CA

Compassionate, Specialized Counseling for Couples Navigating the Profound Grief of Perinatal Loss

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The loss of a pregnancy or infant creates a unique and profound grief that can feel isolating and overwhelming.

Many couples in Long Beach struggle to find specialized support that truly understands the complex emotions surrounding perinatal loss, from early miscarriage to stillbirth to infant death.

At Olive Leaf Family Therapy, we provide compassionate, specialized perinatal loss counseling designed specifically for couples navigating this devastating experience. Our trauma-informed, attachment-based approach recognizes that pregnancy loss affects each partner differently and can strain even the strongest relationships. We create a safe space where both partners can process their grief while strengthening their connection during this difficult time.

Located conveniently on Pacific Coast Highway in Long Beach, our practice serves couples throughout the area who need more than generic grief counseling; they need specialized care that honors their unique loss and supports their journey toward healing while preserving and strengthening their relationship.

Perinatal loss counseling is a specialized form of grief therapy designed specifically for couples who have experienced pregnancy loss, stillbirth, or infant death.

Unlike general bereavement counseling, this specialized approach addresses the unique aspects of losing a child you were expecting to raise, including the complex emotions of anticipatory grief, shattered dreams, and the physical and emotional trauma that often accompanies these losses.

Our process begins with creating a safe, non-judgmental space where both partners can express their individual grief experiences.

Many couples discover that they grieve differently; one partner may want to talk extensively while the other processes internally, or one may be ready to try again while the other needs more time. We help couples understand these differences as normal variations in grief response rather than relationship problems.

Through attachment-based therapy techniques, we help couples maintain their emotional connection while honoring their individual healing processes. We address common challenges such as communication difficulties, different coping styles, decisions about future pregnancies, and navigating well-meaning but hurtful comments from family and friends. Our trauma-informed approach recognizes that perinatal loss often involves medical trauma, loss of control, and complicated feelings about the healthcare system.

We also provide practical guidance for navigating anniversaries, baby-related social situations, and the decision-making process around trying to conceive again. Our goal is not to "get over" the loss, but to help couples integrate this experience into their lives in a way that allows for continued growth, connection, and hope for the future while honoring the significance of their loss.

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Key Benefits

  • Generic grief counseling, while valuable, often lacks the specific knowledge needed to address the unique aspects of perinatal loss. Our therapists understand the complex emotions surrounding pregnancy loss, the anticipatory grief of losing future dreams, the potential medical trauma involved, and the societal tendency to minimize these losses.

    We recognize that losing a pregnancy at any stage or losing an infant represents the death of not just a child, but an entire imagined future. In Long Beach, where many couples delay childbearing and may face additional challenges conceiving, pregnancy loss can feel particularly devastating.

    We provide specialized support that honors the full significance of your loss while helping you process the complex emotions that arise, from guilt and anger to relief and hope.

  • Pregnancy loss can strain even the strongest relationships, as partners often grieve differently and struggle to support each other while managing their own pain. Our attachment-based approach focuses on maintaining and strengthening your bond during this crisis.

    We help couples understand that different grieving styles don't indicate relationship problems; one partner may want to talk constantly while the other needs quiet processing time, or one may want to try again immediately while the other needs space. In our Long Beach practice, we've seen how couples can emerge from loss with deeper intimacy when they receive proper support.

    We teach communication skills specifically designed for navigating grief together, help you understand each other's coping mechanisms, and create strategies for supporting one another without losing yourselves in the process.

  • Many perinatal losses involve medical trauma, emergency procedures, difficult diagnoses, or feeling powerless in medical settings. Our trauma-informed approach recognizes that healing from pregnancy loss often requires addressing both the emotional grief and the medical trauma.

    We understand the impact of procedures like D&C, emergency cesarean sections, or spending time in NICU settings. For Long Beach couples who may have experienced loss in various medical facilities throughout the area, we help process these traumatic medical experiences alongside the grief.

    We address symptoms like anxiety around medical appointments, fear of future pregnancies, hypervigilance about pregnancy symptoms, or avoidance of medical settings. Our approach helps you reclaim a sense of safety and control while processing the trauma and grief simultaneously.

  • Beyond emotional support, perinatal loss involves many practical decisions and challenges that general grief counseling may not address. We help couples navigate questions about trying to conceive again, timing decisions, managing anxiety in future pregnancies, and handling anniversary dates.

    We provide guidance for dealing with pregnancy announcements from others, baby-related social events, and well-meaning but painful comments from family and friends. Long Beach couples often face additional pressures related to career timing, financial considerations, and extended family expectations. We help you develop practical strategies for these situations while honoring your own timeline and needs.

    Our counseling includes discussing how to talk with medical providers about your loss history, advocating for the care you need, and making informed decisions about future family planning that align with your emotional readiness and relationship health.

  • Pregnancy loss can be profoundly isolating, especially in a culture that often doesn't know how to respond to these losses. Many couples feel like they're the only ones who have experienced such devastation, particularly when losses occur early in pregnancy before public announcements.

    Through our counseling, we help couples connect with appropriate community resources and support networks in the Long Beach area. We provide guidance on when and how to seek additional support through groups or other community connections. We also help couples navigate their existing relationships, deciding who to tell, how much to share, and how to handle insensitive responses.

    Our practice has connections with other perinatal loss resources in the Long Beach community, and we can help you find additional support when appropriate while maintaining the privacy and boundaries that feel right for your healing process.

  • While we never minimize the significance of your loss, we help couples gradually rediscover hope and meaning in their lives after perinatal loss. This doesn't mean "getting over" the loss, but rather integrating it into your life story in a way that allows for continued growth and connection.

    We explore ways to honor your baby's memory while creating space for joy and future possibilities. For Long Beach couples, this might include creating meaningful rituals, finding ways to contribute to other families facing loss, or discovering new sources of meaning and connection. We help couples explore questions about spirituality, life purpose, and how this experience has changed them, both individually and as a couple.

    Our goal is to help you carry your love for your baby forward while rebuilding your sense of hope and possibility for the future, whatever that may look like for your unique situation and relationship.

Our Service Categories

Individual Grief Processing

Each partner experiences perinatal loss differently, and individual counseling provides space to process personal emotions without worrying about your partner's reactions. We address feelings of guilt, anger, sadness, and confusion in a private setting where you can explore your unique grief experience. Individual sessions help you understand your coping mechanisms and develop healthy ways to process trauma and loss.

Future Family Planning Support

Counseling support for couples making decisions about future pregnancies, adoption, or child-free living after loss. We help couples navigate anxiety about trying again, communicate with medical providers about loss history, and make decisions that align with their emotional readiness and relationship health.

Trauma-Informed Perinatal Support

Addressing both the medical trauma and emotional grief that often accompany pregnancy and infant loss. We help process traumatic medical experiences, develop coping strategies for medical anxiety, and integrate traumatic memories in healthy ways. This specialized approach recognizes the complex layering of trauma and grief in perinatal loss.

Couples Grief Counseling

Specialized couples therapy focused on maintaining connection while navigating different grieving styles and timelines. We help partners communicate about their loss, support each other effectively, and make decisions about the future together. Our approach strengthens relationships during a crisis rather than allowing grief to create distance and misunderstanding.

Anniversary and Milestone Support

Specialized support for managing difficult dates, pregnancy announcements from others, and major milestones after loss. We help couples develop coping strategies for these challenging times and create meaningful ways to honor their loss while participating in life's ongoing experiences.

Our Process

1. Initial Consultation and Safety

During your first appointment, we focus on creating emotional safety and understanding your unique loss experience. We'll discuss the circumstances of your loss, how each partner has been coping, and what you hope to gain from counseling. This initial session helps us understand your relationship dynamics and individual needs while establishing our therapeutic environment as a safe space for processing grief. We typically spend 50-75 minutes in this first session, allowing ample time for both partners to share their experiences without feeling rushed.

2. Individual and Couples Assessment

We conduct both individual and joint sessions to fully understand how the loss has affected each partner and your relationship. Individual sessions allow for private processing of trauma and grief, while couples sessions focus on communication patterns and relationship dynamics. This comprehensive assessment typically takes 2-3 sessions and helps us develop a treatment plan tailored to your specific needs and relationship style.

3.  Active Grief Processing and Skill Building

The core of our work involves processing the trauma and grief while building skills for communication and mutual support. We use attachment-based and trauma-informed techniques to help you work through difficult emotions while maintaining connection with your partner. Sessions may include EMDR for trauma processing, communication exercises, and grief work tailored to perinatal loss. This phase typically lasts 8-12 sessions, depending on your needs and progress.

4. Integration and Future Planning

Long-term recovery support includes ongoing therapy sessions, family check-ins, and crisis support as needed. We help families navigate recovery challenges, celebrate milestones, and maintain healthy patterns developed during treatment. Our Long Beach location provides convenient access to continued care supporting sustained recovery and family wellness.

Our Approach

Our approach to perinatal loss counseling is grounded in attachment theory and trauma-informed care, recognizing that pregnancy loss creates both individual trauma and relational stress.

We understand that losing a pregnancy or infant involves not just the loss of a child, but the loss of an imagined future, dreams, and often a sense of safety and control.

 Our family-centered approach means we view your relationship as a source of healing rather than an additional stressor during this difficult time.

We integrate evidence-based techniques specifically effective for grief and trauma, including EMDR, attachment-based therapy, and emotion-focused therapy for couples. Our trauma-informed approach means we understand how medical trauma often accompanies perinatal loss and affects both individual healing and relationship dynamics. We recognize that healing happens in relationships, and we work to strengthen your bond while honoring each partner's individual grief process.

Working with Long Beach couples has taught us the importance of cultural sensitivity and understanding how different backgrounds and beliefs affect the grief process. We respect diverse spiritual and cultural approaches to loss while providing consistent, professional support grounded in therapeutic best practices. Our collaborative approach means you remain the experts on your own experience while we provide specialized knowledge and skills to support your healing.

We believe that while grief is the natural response to love and loss, couples don't have to navigate this journey alone or allow it to damage their relationship. Our mission is to help you process this profound loss while maintaining the healthy connections that will support your ongoing healing and whatever future you choose to build together.

FAQs

Since we first started serving Long Beach, we have been providing specialized trauma-informed and attachment-based counseling services. Our practice focuses on helping individuals, couples, and families restore peace through healthy connections during life's most challenging experiences.

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  • There's no "right" timeline for seeking support after perinatal loss. Some couples benefit from immediate counseling to process medical trauma and acute grief, while others need time before they're ready to talk. We recommend reaching out when you feel overwhelmed, notice relationship strain, or simply want professional support during this difficult time. Early intervention can prevent complications, but it's never too late to seek help.

  • Different grieving styles between partners are completely normal and don't indicate relationship problems. Our specialized approach helps couples understand these differences as natural variations in grief response. We teach communication skills specific to grief support and help partners appreciate each other's coping styles rather than feeling disconnected by them.

  • Many pregnancy losses involve traumatic medical experiences, and we address these alongside the grief through trauma-informed therapy techniques. We help process difficult medical memories, manage anxiety around healthcare settings, and develop strategies for communicating with medical providers about your loss history and future care needs.

  • We provide specialized support for couples navigating family planning decisions after loss. This includes processing anxiety about future pregnancies, discussing timing and readiness, and developing strategies for managing pregnancy anxiety if you do conceive again. We help you make decisions that align with your emotional readiness and relationship health rather than external pressures.

  • Yes, we provide specialized counseling for all types of perinatal loss, from early miscarriage to stillbirth to infant death. We understand that society often minimizes early losses, but we recognize that any pregnancy loss represents the death of hopes, dreams, and an imagined future, regardless of timing.